There are many tips, principles, and do’s and don’ts, but
here is a sample of how I put together a “study” or “discussion” for a small
group.
What scripture are you exploring?
Ask unique, searching questions to
draw everyone in right at the beginning.
They can be light or fun to begin
with
They can progress to something
much deeper
Spend most of your time crafting
GOOD questions….it is more than half the battle.
Ask the questions, and don’t
anticipate the responses. You must be
willing to allow the group to take you some places you had not anticipated
going. That is the freshness, and fun of
a small group.
Somewhere, ask for personal,
specific applications or illustrations. They can be positive or negative, but they
must be real life, real experiences, examples and applications.. No general or hypothetical stuff…it is worse
than boring and helps no one. Include
people’s stories!
Let the flow take you to the
conclusion of your time. Try something
new….go with a hunch….take a risk and go with your gut feeling of how to end.
Allow spiritual gifts to be expressed.
A jump start for you:
sample study
MOVING ON!
Phil 3:13 “forgetting what is behind, and looking forward to
what lies ahead, I press on…..”
What is your favorite childhood memory…of an event or
experience?
When is the first time you can remember feeling DEEP
sorrow? What was the occasion and what
conclusions did you draw from it? Were
your takeaways from that time accurate or faulty? Are they still affecting you today?
Sometimes we must “de-construct” things in our past, and
re-construct them with accurate information in order to be free to move
FORWARD. We can get stuck in our
childhood emotions and find it difficult to move forward, as this scripture is
urging us to.
How do you relate to this?
What do you need to do to move ahead, rather than continue to live in
the past? What can you do, or at least begin to do, right now?
From here, you may go several directions. Be sensitive to your group. Go with the LIFE
that is surfacing. I have not led this
particular study in a small group…I am just at Starbucks thinking through this passage from Philippians, and
jotting down my thoughts on how I might lead it. You can do the same
thing. Get a passage….give it a try!
Happy group leading!
The Gatekeeper
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