August 26, 2019

Happy Birthday, Dr. Paul Cunningham

Ken & Linda Stallings; Dan & Jenny Vanderpool; Edna Zimmer; Hardy & Lucille Weathers; Paul & Connie Cunningham;
Jim Zimmer; Nancy Olson; Mark & Sue Fuller; Mark & Bonnie Morgan

Happy Birthday, Paul Cunningham
My pastor, my boss, my mentor and most of all, my friend. It is a very short list of 2 or 3 men who have affected my life in such a way that it has made the difference on a daily basis of who I am and certainly, the pastor that I became. Paul hired me as the first full-time youth pastor of CCN, when no one knew who I was or much about me. That had to be the hand of God working through the obedience of a genuinely committed man. It changed my life. The pastoral staff at CNN in those years (mid 70’s thru the early 80’s) was a remarkable group.  We had a very special bond, and it continues to this day with those of us who are still around. This photo was an impromptu gathering for dinner one night about 10 years ago…Bonnie and I were in Olathe and having a little reunion with some of our former teens…and it just worked out for all of us to get together again (thanks to Mark Fuller for arranging that). It was an epic night! We were having such a great time, someone in the restaurant told us they felt like they should buy our dinner. We laughed, we shared stories, we felt the love and devotion that had been formed years earlier…so genuine.  Paul told us: “Whenever I speak to pastors around the world, this is the group of guys I refer to. We were a team, and it didn’t matter who got the credit, we just got the job done.”  Well, Paul…I learned from you how to put that into practice over 45 years of ministry. Thank you will never be adequate, but it’s all I can say. Blessings on you, and may God’s great grace bring a deep and abiding peace to your heart in knowing you made an incredible deposit in all of our lives and ministries.

August 23, 2019

7 Things Christians Need To Remember About Politics



How to be in the world, not of the world, in a culture of political vitriol.
(much of this was taken from an article in Relevant magazine by Bryan Roberts)
I put this paper together during the Obama / Romney campaign, but it still holds true today.

Political discourse is the Las Vegas of Christianity—the environment in which our sin is excused. Hate is winked at, fear is perpetuated and strife is applauded. There is the idea or even conviction that we can… Go wild, Christ-follower. Your words have no consequences here. Jesus doesn’t live in Vegas and we pretend that we can say something political and it “stays” in the political realm. But our hurting and hateful words don’t stay there. How we speak and love one another during these election days will linger far beyond the first Tuesday of November.

Not only are believers excused for their political indiscretions, but they are often applauded for committing them. Slander is explained away as righteous anger; winning arguments are esteemed higher than truthful ones (whether or not the “facts” align); and those who stir up dissension are given the pulpit. So I balk when pastors tell me the Church should engage in the political process. Why would we do that? The political process is dirty and broken and far from Jesus. Paranoia and vitriol (caustic verbal attack or an abusively stated argument) are hardly attractive accessories for the bride of Christ.

Rather than engage in the political process, Christians have a duty to elevate it. Like any other sin, we are called to stand above the partisan dissension and demonstrate a better way. Should we have an opinion? Yes. Should we care about our country? Yes. Should we vote? Yes. But it’s time we talk politics in a way that models the teachings of Jesus rather than mocks them.

True Christ seekers will agree that we are commanded to help the poor, feed the hungry and pray for our leaders. Not one believer would say we should ignore the struggles of dealing with health care, immigration, the economy or the plight of the unborn and unwanted.

Here are seven things to remember about politics:

1. Both political parties go to church - including our church.

There’s a Christian Right & Left and, there’s a secular Right and Left. Party lines are drawn in chalk, and they're not hard to cross. The Church must speak into in politics – in love, not hate, but it must not be defined by the arbitrary lines in political parties.

2. Speaking about issues without disrespecting one another or those running for election is the standard for believers.

Each of us have ideas and beliefs that are fundamental to who we are and whom we would like to elect. When we see different solutions to a problem we are reflecting the diversity of God’s creation. When we attack a person’s character, race or religion we are sinning and attacking God’s creation. David, when he was being pursued by Saul said: “I will not touch the anointed one.” 1 Sam 26:9-11 David believed that God was sovereign and God would remove Saul in His timing. Was Saul behaving badly? Yes. Did God have a different plan for the leader of Israel? Yes. But David showed his trust in the sovereign God over revengeful and hateful action.

3. Those who argue over politics don’t love their country more than others.

They just love to argue more than others. Strife and quarreling are symptoms of weak faith (Proverbs 10:12; 2 Timothy 2:23-25; James 4:1) and are among the things the Lord “detests.” We need to rise above the vitriol and learn to love our neighbors the way God commanded us. We need to love our atheist neighbor who wants to keep creationism out of schools; our Democrat neighbor who wants to make gay marriage and abortion legal; our Republican neighbor who celebrates death penalty statistics; and yes, even the presidential candidate from the other side.

4. Thinking your party’s platform is unflawed is a mistake.

The social policies of your party were constructed by imperfect politicians fueled by ambition. It’s nearsighted to canonize them—and it will make you obsolete in a few years. Every four years, the parties adopt a current, updated platform at their respective conventions. And while they stay on general tracks, every four years the platform evolves to meet the needs of a growing, modernized and changing party. The Republican or Democrat party’s of today don’t look like they did 10 years ago. We need to know when to change our views to meet a changing culture—and when to stand by them

5. Scripture tells us to pray for our governing leaders (2 Timothy 2:1-4) and to respect those in authority (Romans 13:1-7).

Translation: if you’re mocking your governing leaders on Facebook or ANYWHERE else, the Holy Spirit is grieved. We should spend more time honoring our leaders and less time vilifying them. This doesn’t mean praying the President will be impeached; it doesn’t mean praying your candidate will win. God commands us to pray for our leaders—for their wisdom, for their hearts and for them to be led by Him. Paul wrote those words when the Romans, who were in charge, were persecuting followers of Jesus. That matches the heart of Jesus when He said “pray for those who persecute you.”

6. Don’t be paranoid.

The country is not going to be destroyed if your candidate loses. As 2 Timothy 1:7 says, “God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.” Stand up and demonstrate what God has given you. America has functioned—albeit, at varying levels of success—for years under the direction of alternating Democrat and Republican control, and at every flip, the other side thought it was the end of the world. It’s not. And if we’re a Church that believes God is in control, we have to believe that He is the one in control of the end times—not Barack Obama, not Mitt Romney and not whoever succeeds them. While we love our country we do not worship the United States our faith is built on Jesus not our country.

7. Stop saying, “This is the most important election in the history of our nation.”

It’s not. The most important election in the history of our nation was when Abraham Lincoln was elected president. Before that, we thought it was okay to own people. Every generation thinks it’s living in the most important moment in history. We’re not, our parents were not and our children probably won’t be. And that’s OK.

Sep 21, 2012 12:32pmed in the bulletin. We urge you to take a few moments to read this. Thanks 7 Things Christians Need to Remember About Politics How to be in the world, not of the world, in a culture of political vitriol. (Most of this was taken from an article in Relevant magazine by Bryan Roberts) Political discourse is the Las Vegas of Christianity—the environment in which our sin is excused. Hate is winked at, fear is perpetuated and strife is applauded. There is the idea or even conviction that we can… Go wild, Christ-follower. Your words have no consequences here. Jesus doesn’t live in Vegas and we pretend that we can say something political and it “stays” in the political realm. But our hurting and hateful words don’t stay there. How we speak and love one another during these election days will linger far beyond the first Tuesday of November. Not only are believers excused for their political indiscretions, but they are often applauded for committing them. Slander is explained away as righteous anger; winning arguments are esteemed higher than truthful ones (whether or not the “facts” align); and those who stir up dissension are given the pulpit. So I balk when pastors tell me the Church should engage in the political process. Why would we do that? The political process is dirty and broken and far from Jesus. Paranoia and vitriol (caustic verbal attack or an abusively stated argument) are hardly attractive accessories for the bride of Christ. Rather than engage in the political process, Christians have a duty to elevate it. Like any other sin, we are called to stand above the partisan dissension and demonstrate a better way. Should we have an opinion? Yes. Should we care about our country? Yes. Should we vote? Yes. But it’s time we talk politics in a way that models the teachings of Jesus rather than mocks them. True Christ seekers will agree that we are commanded to help the poor, feed the hungry and pray for our leaders. Not one believer would say we should ignore the struggles of dealing with health care, immigration, the economy or the plight of the unborn and unwanted. Here are seven things to remember about politics: 1. Both political parties go to church - including our church. There’s a Christian Right & Left and, there’s a secular Right and Left. Party lines are drawn in chalk, and they're not hard to cross. The Church must speak into in politics – in love, not hate, but it must not be defined by the arbitrary lines in political parties. 2. Speaking about issues without disrespecting one another or those running for election is the standard for believers. Each of us have ideas and beliefs that are fundamental to who we are and whom we would like to elect. When we see different solutions to a problem we are reflecting the diversity of God’s creation. When we attack a person’s character, race or religion we are sinning and attacking God’s creation. David, when he was being pursued by Saul said: “I will not touch the anointed one.” 1 Sam 26:9-11 David believed that God was sovereign and God would remove Saul in His timing. Was Saul behaving badly? Yes. Did God have a different plan for the leader of Israel? Yes. But David showed his trust in the sovereign God over revengeful and hateful action. 3. Those who argue over politics don’t love their country more than others. They just love to argue more than others. Strife and quarreling are symptoms of weak faith (Proverbs 10:12; 2 Timothy 2:23-25; James 4:1) and are among the things the Lord “detests.” We need to rise above the vitriol and learn to love our neighbors the way God commanded us. We need to love our atheist neighbor who wants to keep creationism out of schools; our Democrat neighbor who wants to make gay marriage and abortion legal; our Republican neighbor who celebrates death penalty statistics; and yes, even the presidential candidate from the other side. 4. Thinking your party’s platform is unflawed is a mistake. The social policies of your party were constructed by imperfect politicians fueled by ambition. It’s nearsighted to canonize them—and it will make you obsolete in a few years. Every four years, the parties adopt a current, updated platform at their respective conventions. And while they stay on general tracks, every four years the platform evolves to meet the needs of a growing, modernized and changing party. The Republican or Democrat party’s of today don’t look like they did 10 years ago. We need to know when to change our views to meet a changing culture—and when to stand by them 5. Scripture tells us to pray for our governing leaders (2 Timothy 2:1-4) and to respect those in authority (Romans 13:1-7). Translation: if you’re mocking your governing leaders on Facebook or ANYWHERE else, the Holy Spirit is grieved. We should spend more time honoring our leaders and less time vilifying them. This doesn’t mean praying the President will be impeached; it doesn’t mean praying your candidate will win. God commands us to pray for our leaders—for their wisdom, for their hearts and for them to be led by Him. Paul wrote those words when the Romans, who were in charge, were persecuting followers of Jesus. That matches the heart of Jesus when He said “pray for those who persecute you.” 6. Don’t be paranoid. The country is not going to be destroyed if your candidate loses. As 2 Timothy 1:7 says, “God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.” Stand up and demonstrate what God has given you. America has functioned—albeit, at varying levels of success—for years under the direction of alternating Democrat and Republican control, and at every flip, the other side thought it was the end of the world. It’s not. And if we’re a Church that believes God is in control, we have to believe that He is the one in control of the end times—not Barack Obama, not Mitt Romney and not whoever succeeds them. While we love our country we do not worship the United States our faith is built on Jesus not our country. 7. Stop saying, “This is the most important election in the history of our nation.” It’s not. The most important election in the history of our nation was when Abraham Lincoln was elected president. Before that, we thought it was okay to own people. Every generation thinks it’s living in the most important moment in history. We’re not, our parents were not and our children probably won’t be. And that’s OK.


August 19, 2019

Parenting


10 Parenting Principles I Believe In

1.     Children will learn more by what you do, than by what you say. However, what you say and how you say it is still vitally important. Language is important.
2.     Discipline must be an act of love rather than mere punishment. What you want and expect discipline to accomplish is vitally important. Be clear minded about its purpose.
3.     Do not allow your children to hold you hostage to the fact that you are not a perfect parent. Reasonably good parenting is a much more realistic and healthy goal. In the end, there will be things our children will need to learn to forgive us for, and that is also an important principle of doing life that works.
4.     Physical punishment, never abuse, should be reserved for a very few, non-negotiable situations that must be reinforced as strongly and quickly as possible.  Some reasonable physical discomfort (temporary pain) is not the same as abuse. Used sparingly and wisely, it will have the greatest positive impact.
5.     Physical punishment should be quick, to the point (void of long and tedious lectures), and then it is over, followed by a demonstration of love and acceptance. “I love you, but that particular behavior will not, and cannot be accepted…it is ultimately dangerous to you and the person you will become.”
6.     You are born with incredible value. You don’t have to prove yourself or earn it, including to yourself. Reinforce this idea constantly.
7.     Parenting is the ongoing assignment of allowing you to recognize, to keep, and to grow a sense of personal value in your children.
8.     The spiritual and moral development of children requires guidance, and should not be left totally to their own choices.  Requiring spiritual and moral input does not have to be abusive and controlling.
9.     You cannot, and should not try to protect your kids from every minor danger, difficulty or failure. Life is about ups and downs, so let them learn that within the context of love and acceptance.  A “blue ribbon” for everything they do is not reality. Pain is the result of some choices. They must learn to accept some things they do not choose and do not particularly like….including food.
10.  Give them ways to earn things they value.  Otherwise, they will have everything and value nothing.  This is a huge disservice. Just because you didn’t have it growing up, does not always mean that you should give it to them. Even if you have the money…make them earn things.


Note to parents:  The degree to which you have difficulty with these principles in your life, will be somewhat equal to the difficulty you have in passing them on to your children.

Let us reason together....

I’ve read a few outdoor type books (quite a few, actually), that included info on falconry, hunting, fishing, wilderness survival, wild mustangs, and other similar topics. If I could have one wish today it would be to spend ONE DAY WITH....
The sense of smell of a grizzly bear
The eyesight of an eagle
The speed of a pronghorn antelope
The hearing of the deer or elk
The sheer strength of a buffalo
The craftiness of a fox
The tenacity of the wolf
The energy of the beaver
The one great thing we humans do possess, unlike all the incredible animals of the world, is the ability to “come, let us reason together....”. And, we seemingly do so little of that...instead we opt to act more like animals (either predator or prey) and are not well equipped for the task.